Hi Prospect2005,
It seems that you have done a lot to find money or other help but until now you have either exhausted all your options (which is not likely), or have not found the right time and the right place to ask for assistance. If you search the grant resources on AidPage maybe you can find new opportunities you didn't know you qualify for. Type your search string in the search box at the top of the page, or browse the list of federal programs at http://us-federal-government-a id.idilogic.aidpage.com/, or search by AidJumps to see what grants are available for housing, for disabled individuals, etc. Good luck!